Sunday 27 April 2014

My Name, My Heritage

Among the Akamba, Kioko is a name given to a baby boy born in the morning


This piece has been inspired by what Kalonzo Musyoka recently told a journalist in a press conference that the Coalition for Reforms and Democracy (CORD) had called to give their assessment of a myriad of topical issues in our country.

The country was stunned when Kalonzo refused to answer the journalist since his name of Kikuyu origin had allegedly 'betrayed' him.

Kalonzo fell short of saying that he could tell the political leaning of the journalist the moment he heard his name, read, his tribe. With this he gave us the best case study from a leader of his stature of looking at issues in a pathologically stereotypical way.
 
Our names are cultural artifacts
Now, to say 'pathologically' is to say, naturally. It is saying if I wereto appear before Kalonzo today and I said my name is Kioko wa Kivandi, then he would conclude, naturally, that from my birth I have supported all that Akamba leaders have said including him, because my name identifies with the Akamba. 

It is also like saying if Barrack Obama were to meet Kalonzo today then Kalonzo would say, "aah, I see, your name is Obama, you are a Luo. I am in a coalition with Odinga so we can talk." 

For this reason I am writing to argue that pathological stereotypes are what have killed us as a nation. And Kalonzo is not the only person who may exhibit such. You saw Prof. Anyang Nyong' laughed, almost in approval of what had been said. Yet, I cannot even attempt to teach him, the writer of the famous poem Daughter of the Low Land  about these issues. He is more learned than me. He knows better.

Kenya has been crushing out of the negative narratives that we have told our offspring about the 'other tribe.' And we have told them in such a manner that they appear to have been so since creation.

That is why our names are no longer gems of a heritage, but the sources of our betrayal. You introduce yourself in a forum and kaboom, "your name betrays you" and "I cannot say more."

No name is chosen in a vacuum, its part of a culture

In 2007/2008 post election violence and throughout the history of negative ethnicity our names have betrayed us. Many a times they have defined our destinies, especially negative ones.

But our names are our heritage. They are part of our culture. My name Kioko means a boy who was born in the morning. Your name also has its meaning. It was not picked in a vacuum. 

Behold, we need to retell narratives about ourselves and those about our neighbors, and more so in instances where we have painted images of neighbors who are ogres when in real sense they are true replicas of us as the holy books say.